未婚夫在婚礼前抛弃了她,接下来她就拍了这些全世界最棒的「结婚照」

23岁的Shelby Swink,2011年在大学的时候认识了她的「前」未婚夫并开始交往,他们在2014年3月开开心心地订婚了,将在11月正式结婚。不过这段爱情似乎没有像童话故事里头一样这么幸福美满… Photo courtesy of Elizabeth Hoard Photography   她一直引颈期盼这一天

December 31, 2014
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23岁的Shelby Swink,2011年在大学的时候认识了她的「前」未婚夫并开始交往,他们在2014年3月开开心心地订婚了,将在11月正式结婚。不过这段爱情似乎没有像童话故事里头一样这么幸福美满…

23岁的Shelby Swink,在2011年在大学的时候认识了她的「前」未婚夫并开始交往,他们在2014年3月开开心心地订婚了,将在11月正式结婚。
Photo courtesy of Elizabeth Hoard Photography

 

她一直引颈期盼这一天的到来,这天她可以走上红毯、交换承诺、许诺终身。

她一直引颈期盼这一天的到来,这天她可以走上红毯、交换承诺、许诺终身。
Photo courtesy of Elizabeth Hoard Photography
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不过就在婚礼到来的前几周,她的未婚夫告诉她,他已经没有爱了,决定不跟她结婚。

不过就在婚礼到来的前几周,她的未婚夫告诉她,他已经没有爱了,决定不跟她结婚。
Photo courtesy of Elizabeth Hoard Photography

 

她说:「碰!我结婚、生孩子、跟心爱的人走一生的梦想瞬间灰飞烟灭了!」

她说:「碰!我结婚、生孩子、跟心爱的人走一生的梦想瞬间灰飞烟灭了!」
Photo courtesy of Elizabeth Hoard Photography
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当下的她,脑筋一片空白。在接下来的几天,她忙于跟宾客取消的混乱当中…

“I was in complete shock and had no idea what to think or do. I was numb. The next few days were a blur of calling guests and canceling vendors.”
Photo courtesy of Elizabeth Hoard Photography
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她很高兴家人们都可以支持她,但也不知道该怎么做。

Swink said she was lucky to have her friends and family supporting her, but none of them knew what to do or how to act when what was supposed to be her wedding day rolled around.
Photo courtesy of Elizabeth Hoard Photography

 

然而,怎么说都一定要来个「安慰的派对」来犒赏自己的人生波折。

But she knew one thing for certain: “A pity party was the farthest thing from what I wanted or needed," she said.
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所以呢!既然这个婚约已经失效了,那不如就来仪式性地来「搞脏婚纱」吧!谁说这样的情况下,不能够开开心心地玩呢?

所以呢!既然这个婚约已经失效了,那不如就来仪式性地来「搞脏婚纱」吧!谁说这样的情况下,不能够开开心心地玩呢?
Photo courtesy of Elizabeth Hoard Photography
 
她说:「当第一滴漆弄脏婚纱时,我就立刻被释放了。」

 

她说,一开始她觉得这个点子有点太疯狂了,但这的确是个完美的点子。毕竟在这样的情况下,这只是件衣服,一个婚礼的东西罢了。

“At first it sounded crazy, but after really thinking about it, I knew that it was the perfect thing for me,” Swink said. “After all, it was just a dress, a material item.”
Photo courtesy of Elizabeth Hoard Photography

 

于是,在她婚礼的当天,她还是要开开心心地跟亲朋好友们一起度过。这样的快乐,是不应该被她前未婚夫给带走的。

“Nov. 1 was supposed to be a fun and happy day surrounded by friends and family who loved me,” Swink continued. “I decided that I would not let my ex-fiancé's mistake of letting me go take that away from me.”
Photo courtesy of Elizabeth Hoard Photography

 

新娘的爸爸妈妈,也都加入了这场好玩的派对。

The former bride-to-be asked both of her parents to be involved in the photo shoot.
Photo courtesy of Elizabeth Hoard Photography

 

当初是她妈妈买下这件礼服的,在她有了这个点子时,她还有点担心该怎么告诉妈妈。没想到妈妈100%支持她的作法。

“My mom is the one who paid for the dress, so I was nervous as to how she would react when I told her what I wanted to do with it. But both of them were 100% supportive and wanted to be there for me.”
Photo courtesy of Elizabeth Hoard Photography

 

Shelby的爸爸甚至带来了一些香槟跟菸。

Swink’s dad even brought along some champagne and cigars.
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她也希望伴娘们可以一同到场,结果就是照片上这么快乐的光景呢!

She also wanted her bridesmaids to be there, and they ended up being just as excited as Swink to take the photos.
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一群好朋友,陪她一起度过了人生当中这么具有仪式性的东西。

一群好朋友,陪她一起度过了人生当中这么具有仪式性的东西。
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结束后,她的礼服也被展示在曼非斯 (Memphis) 的一家店里头。

Swink’s dress is also being displayed in a local bridal shop in Memphis through the beginning of January. A portion of the proceeds from each dress bought while it's on display are going to a local nonprofit called Be Free Revolution.
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她也没想到,这样的举动竟然这么能释放心情,而在油漆喷到她礼服上的刹那,她知道她自由了。

“I can't even describe how liberating and cathartic the experience was for me,” said Swink. “The moment the first bit of paint hit my dress I was free.”
Photo courtesy of Elizabeth Hoard Photography

 

就算几个月前才跟她前未婚夫分手,但她还是用欢乐的方式度过这一切的负面情绪。

就算几个月前,才跟她前未婚夫分手,但她还是用这么一个具启发性又欢乐的方式度过了这一切负面情绪。
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她说:「与其躺下来,让生命践踏我,我决定要站起来面对它!」

“Instead of lying down and letting life trample over me, I decided to get up and face it head-on,” she said.
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而对于她的前未婚夫,她想对他说:「谢谢你带给我痛苦还有失落,谢谢你让我知道我自己的力量…」

And if she could say one thing to her ex, this is what it would be: “Thank you for sparing me greater pain and loss down the road. Thank you for pushing me to realize my own strength..."
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「谢谢你告诉我,没有任何人可以带走我的快乐。谢谢你让我走,让我有一天可以真正感受到相互的爱。谢谢!」(连爸妈都加入比中指的行列…)

"...Thank you for teaching me that no one can take away my happiness. Thank you for letting me go so I can one day experience true reciprocated love. THANK YOU!”
Photo courtesy of Elizabeth Hoard Photography

参考资料:Offbeat Bride

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